Is the BMS internal to the battery? (That is, is the BMS contained inside the big metal enclosure that all the battery modules are in?)
I disassembled two full Leaf packs. I've got a big box of miscellaneous scrap whatnot out in the shop. If the BMS was inside the battery box, then I probably have one. Let me know, or upload a pic of the part, and I'll poke around out when I'm out there this weekend to see if I have one laying around. You'd be welcome to it, as I certainly have no use for it myself. (I'm not one of the rich guys, but I am using Batrium on my Leaf-based powerwall -- and I'd use the DIY-BMS if I had it to do over again.)
Cheers, John